late post, blogger been down

i wrote this post about a week ago, but not been able to post it so far...

guys, time for a catch up i think! currently there are 2 major projects underway... trying to conceive Baby No.3 and Moving house. i managed to get pregnant last month, however miscarried a few days after finding out. the reason it seems was due to the rotary airer snapping and falling on top of me, causing the baby to die on the monday, however i didnt actually miscarry the baby till the thursday. we are currently taking the manufactorers to court over the matter, and will update in due course. so needless to say things have been a bit shaky here, however we have decided to carry on ttc (trying to conceive) which has helped me look forward instead of wallowing! The house move is underway, we are looking atm, our tennacy is up at the end of next month, but there are plenty of properties we could take we are just taking our time finding the perfect place. i am really looking forward to it, because it means tom will have a room of his own, and due to his disruptive behaviour we have been advised that to give him a space of his own will help. that way he can set things out and line things up to his hearts content without ellen knocking things down and causing uproar! Thomas is getting better, mostly due to the help i have had from the health visitor, helping me understand why things upset him, what his triggers are, and showing me where to draw the line and to pick my battles! it is a delicate balancing act, but i am getting there. His speech is picking up thanks to the sign language we have been teaching him, he feels less under pressure to get things right because he can sign along side speaking, and it gives him the confidence to use new words without feeling we wont understand him. Ellen is as good as ever, she is really such a gentle soul and always got a smile for anyone who so much as looks at her! her speech is brilliant to, she even says love you before bed sometimes! she is also growing ever so fast, needing new clothes every few weeks. i buy them a size bigger so they need rolling up yet they are soon above her ankles.